Find Your Breakthrough

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On an hour-long video call to Find Your Breakthrough, you talk to me about your problem, your circumstance, your situation, your opportunity. Together, we explore the full scope of what you share in order to find your solution, your insight, or your next step.

What happens on a call?

We say hello and check in on how we're doing.

I go over the format of the call, you tell me your goal for the call.

And we start! You mostly talk, I mostly listen, reflect on what you share, and ask questions.

I do not tell you what to do. Guided by your goal and my curiosity, we explore together in search of what you want.

Why are you offering this?

The two most common reflections I receive are that I have a calm energy and that I ask good questions. Serving others is important to me because I value the energetic flow of giving and receiving, and I enjoy participating in that flow in order to make the best use of my natural gifts. Find Your Breakthrough has been an effortless way for me to serve others.

Why don't you show your name or face online?

I used to have a story that this choice helps me feel safe. There are times when I have shared perspectives and questions online that I thought were fine to share, that other people thought were not fine. These events evoked a lot of fear and contraction, and I reacted by people pleasing and defending myself. I sought to understand their perspectives through calm dialogue in the replies, but it was from a place of insecurity. I didn't feel secure with myself in the wake of harsh criticism.

I don't carry that story any longer. I now understand that my relationship with myself is paramount and I am detached from however anyone else perceives me, whether that's an internet acquaintance or one of my most cherished connections. I don't need you to see me any kind of way. If you like me, don't like me, hate me, love me, have no thoughts about me, it's all okay.

When I was defensive, what was I defending? Everything I am and everything I have was given to me. It's all a gift, and I am a witness to the unfolding of my life.

So, if this choice is not for safety, what is it for? Truthfully, I don't know. This online persona is as it has been for years, but it is not static. Maybe it will radically shift someday. That's my best understanding right now.

Is Find Your Breakthrough fully confidential?

Yes! I will not share identifying details of what we talk about with any person, group, platform, or other entity. As a pseudonymous person of the internet, I have a lot of appreciation for the privacy afforded by many online spaces. Find Your Breakthrough is one such space for you to speak freely. I believe it is my ethical responsibility to hold this space with full confidentiality, and I am glad to do so.

How do I prepare?

Knowing what you want from our call with benefit our conversation. People who bring one or two specific topics to the conversation tend to benefit the most, but it's not required. I will direct my curiosity toward you if you don't have a topic or goal in mind and want to have a call.

I also offer business consulting, where we'll collaborate to find a way forward on a business problem.