Find Your Breakthrough


On an hour-long video call to Find Your Breakthrough, you talk to me about your problem, your circumstance, your situation, your opportunity. Together, we explore the full scope of what you share in order to find your solution, your insight, or your next step.

What happens on a call?

We say hello and check in on how we're doing.

I go over the format of the call, you tell me your goal for the call.

And we start! You mostly talk, I mostly listen, reflect on what you share, and ask questions.

I do not tell you what to do. Guided by your goal and my curiosity, we explore together in search of what you want.

Why are you offering this?

The two most common reflections I receive are that I have a calm energy and that I ask good questions. Serving others is important to me because I value the energetic flow of giving and receiving, and I enjoy participating in that flow in order to make the best use of my natural gifts. Find Your Breakthrough has been an effortless way for me to serve others.

Why don't you show your name or face online?

Showing up this way online lets me feel safe. I will try to use more words to depict to you what is ultimately an embodied feeling of safety.

I feel unnerved by the idea of people throughout different eras of my life having such comprehensive access to my thoughts without it being reciprocal. I don't like that.

I've made a few tweets before from hurt and unaware states, and I was broadly dunked on and ridiculed. Preferably, such events wouldn't have any effect on me, but I'm not quite there. They do affect me, and so not having my name and face attached to my twitter in those instances helps soften the impact.

Also, I like it as an artistic choice. I think there are things that I can do online that wouldn't be as effective if they were done by an identifiable person.

Is Find Your Breakthrough fully confidential?

Yes! I will not share identifying details of what we talk about with any person, group, platform, or other entity. As a pseudonymous person of the internet, I have a lot of appreciation for the privacy afforded by many online spaces. Find Your Breakthrough is one such space for you to speak freely. I believe it is my ethical responsibility to hold this space with full confidentiality, and I am glad to do so.

How do I prepare?

Knowing what you want from our call with benefit our conversation. People who bring one or two specific topics to the conversation tend to benefit the most, but it's not required. I will direct my curiosity toward you if you don't have a topic or goal in mind and want to have a call.

Here's a call I did with my friend Michelle:


I also offer business consulting, where we'll collaborate to find a way forward on a business problem.