Everyone has a unique list of winning moves.
Trust your own list over the lists of others.
Understand that your list is a living document. It is subject to additions, revisions, and deletions.
Be open to the existence of winning moves that look obvious in hindsight or are unexpected.
Believe that you are willing and able to leverage your list.
Enjoy and appreciate all of the wonderful qualities of your list.
Your list is a reflection of you.